So what's the deal

I see all manner of (exceedingly creepy explicit sexist) prompts and fanart of Kotetsu or Barnaby turned into a chick and then usually raped or otherwise humiliated. Where are the Kotetsu and Barnaby transgender stories that actually explore what it'd be like to be transgendered? Or at least try to do it in a sexy and not creepy way?

And where's my Antonio -> Antonia stories, or my Nathan -> Natalie stories where Antonio reassures Nathan that he likes him best as himself, but will always love him no matter what he looks like because they're just that close or whatever?

I'd even settle for Karina turnin' into a dude in the Kotetsu and Barnaby are now chicks stories. Fair play and all.

Just, I don't know. It seems like transgender in the fandom is largely of the creeper variety, and that leads to massive sad.